Shantideva the 8th century Indian Buddhist sage is famous for his treatise "The Way of the Bodhisattva" delivered as an extended teaching to the monks at the Buddhist university of Nalanda monastery.
Over the last 1,500 years Buddhist scholars and teachers have discussed at length the finer points of his teachings but at heart this classic Buddhist work can best be considered an "...essential guidebook on the ideal of compassion and the methods of attaining it". [Pema Chödrön]
In Buddhist terminology a "Bodhisattva" is someone who has taken a vow to put others first and to postpone his/her entry to Nirvana [a permanent state of enlightenment] until all other sentient beings have achieved enlightenment.
What Does This Really Mean?
This all sounds very worthy and dramatic, but what does this really mean in practice?
In my view there is an inherent faultline in the teachings of Buddhism and other major world religions, and it is this: ultimately its nearly all just words and concepts. They have practical value to the extent that they show us exactly what we can do, what steps we can take, to transform ourselves and our direct experience of life.
The cutting edge of this teaching from Shantideva is how you and I choose to live right now.
Commitment To Others
His Holiness the Dalai Lama, commenting on the text suggests says the real heart of Buddhism is complete commitment to others:
"In his famed text 'The Way of the Bodhisattva', Shantideva states that all happiness and joy are the consequences of cherishing the well-being of other sentient beings, while all problems, tragedies and disasters are the consequences of self-cherishing attitudes."
The recently departed, greatly revered and saintly Vietnamese Zen Master Thich Nhaht Hanh describes the Bodhisattva as:
Compassion
The word compassion is derived from the Latin words "com pati" meaning to suffer with. It has been defined as an empathic understanding of a person's feelings, accompanied by
altruism, or a desire to act on that person's behalf.
In practical terms it is when you relate to someone’s situation, and you want to help them. You see someone having a hard time, and you show up beside them and offer a helping hand.
Compassion Is Good For All Involved
It is not only the recipient who benefits, so does the person who is behaving compassionately.
Alongside the spiritual benefits, there are many personal benefits to be derived from the
expression of compassion and some of these benefits
include:
Let's briefly consider 3 key takeaways from Shantideva
Surrender is often referred to as dying to self in the Christian tradition and dropping the ego in Buddhism.
This is about correcting the inbuilt, hardwired tendency to assume that everything revolves around me.
Dying to self and dropping the ego is not a one-time experience but a frequent activity that should be undertaken at least daily and often many times throughout the day.
It is a practice and it grows with focused attention and repetition.
Surrender occurs quite naturally when you quieten your mind with mindfulness practice and shift your focus away from yourself by putting someone else first and acting in a selfless way.
This practice is echoed in other major traditions.
In the Tao we are advised:
"If You Want To Be Given Everything, Give Everything Up." [Tao Te Ching [22]]
The Bible says:
"Whoever seeks to preserve his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life will keep it." [Gospel of Luke 17.33]
The practise of mindfulness will enable you:
Thich Nhat Hanh gave us a lucid and profound explanation that defines nirvana as the cessation of all suffering, and how our suffering comes from our wrong perceptions.
He explains how the practise of mindfulness can enable us to look deeply and remove our wrong perceptions.
"I can't cope with life, I just don't want to live any more," says a woman's softly spoken voice. "Nobody has listened, I just want to go to sleep and not wake up."
Mick, head in hands, tries to reassure her.
"I
know that feeling," says Mick, "but there is a light that is stronger
than the darkness...
"I just don't want to live, Mick, I'm in a dark tunnel and can't get out," says the woman.
He pleads with her. "There's always hope..."
Mick wants others who have had troubles to find hope - just like he has.
In his 20s, Mick was a drug dealer consumed by cocaine and violence. He has now found faith and feeds the poor at his "Church On The Street" in Burnley, UK.
Pastor Mick is a good example of the engagement of compassion.
Be The Light At The End Of Someone Else's Tunnel Of Darkness
To be the light at the end of someone else's tunnel of darkness means to offer hope, encouragement, kindness and compassion to someone else who needs it.
His Holiness The Dalia Lama makes the point that it is in our self interest to do this:
"Even from the point of view of our own self-interest, if others are happy and satisfied, then we ourselves can also be happy.
If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion."
He continues:
"Furthermore, based on our own personal experience, we can observe that the more we hold on to a strong sense of self—cherishing our own self-interest—the greater our own emotional and psychological problems."
"Compassion is threatening to the ego. We might think of it as something warm and soothing, but actually it’s very raw.
When we set out to support other beings, when we go so far as to stand in their shoes, when we aspire to never close down to anyone, we quickly find ourselves in the uncomfortable territory of 'life not on my terms'.” [Pema Chödrön]
The traditional life of The Ferryman is all about transporting passengers from one side of a river or estuary to the other. He is needed where the water is too deep for a crossing on foot and where there is no bridge.
In literature and mythology he is often seen as an agent of transition from life to death.
In Buddhist thought and teaching The Ferryman is a metaphor for the Bodhisattva as a champion of compassion.
Further Reading:
5 Zen Mindsets For Mastery - In Any Area Of Your Life
Tao Te Ching - Connecting To Your True Source Of Power
Return from "Shantideva" to: Walking The Talk
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